Sensitivity Isn’t Reduced by Vibrators

Vibration applied to the clit or any other part of the body does not create desensitisation. While we don’t know why vibration feels so nice, Ligon believes it has something to do with blood flow: When the clit is excited, it swells with blood much like the penis — they’re similar parts — and the greater surface area exposes more nerve endings.

Vibrators have no effect on nerve function. It’s just that once we’ve grown accustomed to the powerful sensation they produce, other sorts of stimulation can feel less intense — and if you’ve had some vibrator experience, you may want more intensity than you did when you were a novice since you have more reference points. It’s all about the relative impression of stimulation. Vibrators are similar to massage chairs: If you sit in a powerful massage chair for an hour and then receive a shoulder rub, the shoulder rub will not be as severe as if you hadn’t sat in the massage chair before. A hand massage, on the other hand, will feel as nice as it has in the past if you wait a long time. (It’s worth noting that the placebo effect is strong: if you believe that using a vibrator reduces sensitivity, you might actually feel less sensitive.)

Unenhanced Sex Will Not Be Ruined by Vibrators.

The sex you have with your own body parts (Hands! Clits! Tongues!) will never lose its appeal if you employ a vibrator in your sex life. The fear that vibrators are substitutes’ which they are not, has contributed to the spread of this misunderstanding. Is it possible to have sex with a vibrator? When it comes to increasing orgasms, I’m all for anything that reduces physical effort and makes orgasms simpler to achieve.

You may, however, require a respite from time to time.

A lot of people are afraid of vibrators because of fear-mongering. Bottom line: “You won’t become hooked or dependent on your Vibrating Device.” In other cases, you may prefer to put it away. If you’re in a relationship now or expect to be in the future, think about the role your vibrator will play in your sex life. If you don’t mind your partner using a Secret Cherry vibrator on you or using a vibrator with your companion, then go ahead and buzz away! Start off gently and learn how to climax with your hands in order to get the most out of orgasm with your partner’s hands, tongue, or intercourse. Frequent vibrator use does not impair orgasm in other ways, but it can reduce the amount of time spent identifying and communicating with your spouse what else makes you tick. If all you know how to do is press the power button, it’s impossible to give feedback to a partner.

It’s important to keep in mind that there is no one-size-fits-all method of orgasm.

Orgasms are orgasms, regardless of whether or not they involve a toy, and sex doesn’t have to include one in order to be enjoyable. Although many people are pre-orgasmic or have difficulty becoming orgasmic on a regular basis, they can nevertheless have significant sexual pleasure without coming into contact with a partner. If you can only come from the most extreme vibration known to humanity, it’s even more magnificent and awesome! Even if it’s not recommended, it is possible to play with a variety of toys and not cause any harm to your sex life. Fortunately, my Magic Wand is nearly full of juice.