Being a Malaysian and living in a country where most are closed-minded, masturbation is not something people can easily partake in. Don’t even get me started on what would happen if your parents were to find out about your late-night activities, or daytime… hey, I don’t judge okay, to each their own. But my point is that we are not a crowd that is open to topics such as this. Elders consider it risque and tend to avoid it at all costs. Some even say it’s taboo and punish their kids if they catch them doing it. 

In hindsight, masturbation is nowhere near a bad thing. In fact, it has its own benefits. From health benefits to safety advantages. Here is a list of reasons why masturbation should be encouraged.

Releases stress

Sex releases stress, we all know that. But did know that masturbation relaxes you too. It all lies in the mechanics behind the act. When one has an orgasm, the body releases a bunch of hormones that are in charge of relaxing your body, which in turn helps you release your stress. An added bonus is that you can masturbate anytime that’s convenient for you. You would not have to worry about the lack of a lover as all you need is yourself and the occasional sex toy and you’re good to go.  

Get to know yourself

When first trying out sex, one should first experiment with oneself. This is so that you get to learn about your body and sexual needs. By using things like sex toys, you are able to discover your likes and dislikes at your own pace. Virgins usually tend to be more nervous when you’re trying out sex for the first time. By masturbating, you can have a taste of what sex could possibly be like and know what to expect. Once you learn about how your sexual appetite is, it will provide you with a safer environment where you can have a better sex life with your lover. 

Safety first

To be completely honest, we all come to an age where we are curious about sex. You can deny it all you want but it’s human nature to feel a desire for the human flesh. There will come a time when you sometimes will not be able to control your sexual urges and sex is the only thing on your mind. Fear not, you’re not alone in your struggle. However, instead of trying out sex itself, why not first masturbate. By doing so, you are able to avoid situations like one night stands where the other person might be someone who has STDs (sexually transmitted diseases). And let me tell you, STDs are no joke. You not only have to deal with the pain and discomfort if you catch one but also have to worry about the bad reputation that comes with it. By masturbating using sex toys, it is not only safer but also cleaner, not to mention STD free. 

So the next time you would like to masturbate and need a helping hand, don’t be shy and try out some sex toys. Check out Secret Cherry, the leading sex toy shop in Malaysia.